this series of events usually happen once a person has feelings of being mistreated, of themselves putting in much effort to make something work, but not getting what the expect in return, or just plainly from the way that they were brought up. considering this, a person can either choose to do something about it, like change themselves, accept that the choice is in their hands and make a conscious effort to do something about it, like release forgiveness and not hold grudges against people anymore, or they can choose likewise, to think that the world owes them, to think that they are superior to others. but to be honest, the latter choice will only bring you further down the road of being mistreated, having no one who is willing to put their trust in you. and you will end up hurting yourself more than any one else has ever did in the past.

the choice to break out of the cycle is your own. the first step is to accept the fact that you can do something about it. it's about how strong your willpower is. look at others as your example, never look down on oneself. the only time you'll fail is when you give up trying.

Proverbs 21:2 - 3 : All a man's ways are right to him, but the Lord weighs the Heart. To do what is right and just, is more acceptable to the Lord than sacrifice.